How can you fix your relationship when it is burned out? Love is fickle and sometimes seems to burn out as quickly as it was ignited.
Problems and outside circumstances can put a toll on love. Things like money problems cause stress on relationships, making love deteriorate with no resolution in sight.
You need a plan to win love back:. Here are 4 tips to help you:
Be open and honest. The more honest you can be the better, even when telling the truth is painful. Anything less than complete honesty can lead to distrust which is one of the leading causes of relationship problems. Be honest and share things that you are going through every day, such as finances or issues at work. Create trust and build up your relationship.
Encourage your partner. Show him your appreciation for who they are. Fix your relationship by encouraging your lover and supporting the things they care about. Love that lasts encourages the other person to grow and feel free to express who they are. You can encourage them even if you have different goals. Everyone needs to feel appreciated by their loved ones for who they are.
Be dependable. Rebuild your relationship by rebuilding their trust in you. Make sure you follow through with your promises. Use little everyday things to show you mean what you say. For example, if you volunteer to make the bed, then be consistent. Your partner needs to be able to count on you.
Be an active listener. Communication between partners is vital. Win love back by learning to communicate more effectively. Not just learning how to express your feelings, but how to listen better to your partners as well. Realize that their thoughts and feelings need to have the same consideration as yours do in order to have a solid relationship.
Since all relationships have their ups and downs you need to be willing to take action and repair the problems as they come along. They won’t go away if you sit back and wait for them to. Ignoring problems will make your partner feel alienated more than anything. Keep in mind the tips above to fix your relationship and win love back.
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If you want a man to approach you, you have to make yourself approachable. It is generally considered the man’s job to go up to a girl and strike up a conversation and possibly ask her out for a date. A lot of women do things that prevent men from approaching them without even realizing it.
A common example of something that happens a lot is this: You go out to a club with a group of your friends. This makes it a lot less likely for aman to approach you and there are a number of reasons for this. One is that a nice guy might feel like he is interrupting if you are sitting there,chatting with your friends. The biggest reason is the fear of rejection.
It’s just not easy for a lot of guys to approach a woman because of that fear of rejection. The only thing that is worse than being rejected by a woman, is being rejected by a woman in front of several other women. All but the most confident men will have this image in their mind of going up to you, getting shot down, and then having a group of attractive women laughing at him.
To make yourself approachable you should spend a little bit of time by yourself. You can still go to a bar or a club with your friends but just take a little walk by yourself or stand by the bar for a minute away from the pack.
Your body language also says a lot and the way you carry yourself can make you more or less approachable. Men are simple creatures though so it is important to keep things as simple as possible. If you want a man to approach you, make eye contact with him and give him a nice smile. If he is attracted to you and he is not a complete wimp, he will come up to you.
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Women ofter feel like they are putting all the effort into their relationships with men. So, how do you get a man to contribute to the relationship?
You may look back at when you first started dating. Remember all the long phone conversations, the romantic dinners, maybe even flowers?
The truth is that guys get comfortable and decide that all the effort they put into winning you is now over. The weird thing is that they don’t even think that they are doing anything wrong.
You should understand that women are more into the process of things, and working on relationships. Men are goal oriented, and the goal is accomplished when he has won you.
Women like to lavish their time and attention on relationships and can get upset when their men don’t respond the same way. So, how can you get your guy motivated and contributing to the relationship again?
If you can stimulate him with a competition you can can give him a new goal to work towards. You can do this by getting him to compete with the man he was when you started out together. Get him to talk about what he liked best about you when he first met you and started going out with you. Then tell him what you really enjoyed about him.
What will this do? Hopefully it will give him a new goal. Get some romance back into the picture. Don’t let him down either. If he gives you some hints of what he really liked, then get busy giving it to him.
When you understand how men think and act accordingly, it will be easier than you think to get a man to contribute to the relationship again.
Men can’t always put into words what they are looking for in a woman or what they want before taking the next step forward. Women have trouble understanding why men pull away just when they thought things were going really great, maybe they were even expecting a proposal. Watch this video to find out why this happens and what you can do to have your man be eager and willing to start your future together!
It is commonly said that men and problems with commitment go hand in hand. Women often have trouble understanding why men pull away just when they are looking and hoping for a permanent commitment.
If you ask a man he may not even really be able to say what the problem is. Some relationships last for years and then the guy will end it even though he still admits to feelings of love for his ex. Why men pull away often remains a mystery.
The thins is that as your relationship goes through different stages there will inevitable be pitfalls and problems. If you are not aware of what is going on, and blindly assume everything will be all right, you may actually be headed for trouble.
Relationships are always vulnerable and you should try and notice problems and find ways to work them out before they become too big.
Problems left to fester may cause you to grow apart. Besides looking out for problems you should continue to find things you both have in common and love to do together.
In spite of a woman’s best efforts sometimes she can just feel her guy pulling away. The worst thing you can do is put pressure on him or push him for a commitment.
Most of us women don’t want to waste time waiting for a man to decide. After all, our biological clocks are ticking!
So, what can you do to keep him from pulling away?
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One of the main reasons why men pull away is when they begin to realize that you two “have a relationship” and that may scare him a bit. Sometimes guys need time to process that fact and need some space to do it in.
Why would a guy be afraid of being in a committed relationship? Knowing the answer to that is finding out what exactly men fear.
Things men fear about a committed relationship:
Loss of freedom and that you will try to change them and their life.
Fear that you may change
Fear that he won’t like never having sex with anyone else but you ever again.
How you respond to his fears may sway him in his choice of whether to go or stay.
What can you do when he seems to be pulling away? The best thing you can do is give him time and space. And to keep yourself from going crazy, spend time with friends or find ways to keep yourself busy.
It’s natural for women to try and “fix” things by pursuing her boyfriend and trying to find out what is wrong. This is the wrong way to go about it. It will only make him feel pressured and he will withdraw even further.
Also, if you don’t leave him alone to figure things out you may come across as desperate. This is not the time to act like he is the center of your universe and you can’t live without him. This will make him feel smothered by you and make him run the other way!
When you are busy and seemingly okay without him around it shows him that you are confident and have self-control. A woman’s confidence is very attractive to a man. So much so, that it is a quality men look for when choosing a life partner. What man wouldn’t want a woman he can count on to not fall apart whenever there’s a problem?
Another advantage to you letting your man have his space, is that he hopefully will miss you and the time you spent together. Once he starts to desire to connect with you again he will become more open and willing to discuss what is going on. He may be able to tell you why he was pulling away and that is golden.
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Satisfaction in your relationship means that both people are getting what they want and need in the relationship. Accepting
each other as they are will help you be content with each other.
Just like each person is different, so is each relationship. If you think about it, you know that both of you have strengths and weaknesses. When one of you doesn’t know how to do something and the other one does you can both benefit from each others strong points.
What you can do:
Take the stress off. When your relationship seems tense and too much too handle, it’s time to simplify your life. Get rid of extra baggage. Maybe you don’t need to have the house picked up every night after a long days work. Or maybe changing your phone plan to save a little money will help.
Keep things fresh. Plan a date night a couple of times a month.Try something different and sneak in little surprises for your
partner. See their point of view. Try and see the way your partner see things some of the time instead of fighting just to prove that you are right about something.
Remember the good times. Reminisce about the good memories you have shared. Try and recapture some of the good feelings by doing some little thing for your lover now and then.
Take a surprise weekend away. Don’t tell your partner where you are going and keep them guessing. The surprise element does wonders in keeping them coming back for more.
Keeping things fresh and trying new things will help counteract boredom and complacency. That doesn’t mean you have to come up with something surprising every day. Just try new ideas once a week or so and keep things exciting for both of you.
Hopefully your efforts will spark an interest in your partner to also plan fun things to do together. Before you know it, you won’t be seeking to find satisfaction in your relationship, you will have it!
You also have been waiting for the special question for some time now? Believe me, you are not alone. Men seem to be more fearful of commitment than they ever were. Women have a hard time understanding why men have a fear of commitment.
For women, commitment in a relationship makes them feel secure. For men, it robs them of independence. His anxiety is real and may overtake him to the point of not being able to commit.
So, what can you do to help? Here’s several ideas to help him overcome his fears and be more open to committing:
1) Don’t make the bar too high: When guys first ask you out they may try really hard to impress you. Lavish meal, expensive drinks, etc. If you make too much of it, he may feel like he has to keep it up. He will eventually realize that is a big financial drain, which puts a lot of pressure on him. A better way to handle it is to let him know you appreciate the effort, but you are just as happy to spend time with him at a pizza joint or a picnic in a park. Make it about enjoying HIM and not his money. 2) Unconditional acceptance – Make your man feel like you accept him wholeheartedly for who he is and not for who you want him to be. Look for and comment on all the little things he does for you. Be positive about things and not critical. 3) Show confidence – not clinginess – Allow your man space when he wants it. When he wants to spend time with his friends he shouldn’t have to have a guilt trip dumped on him by a girlfriend who can’t spend one evening without him. Don’t become so dependent upon your man that he feels smothered. Keep up with your girlfriends too and other activities. A woman who is confident in herself is very appealing to a man.
Too often women think that “love is enough”. Men need certain things that they can’t always put into words to want to take that next step forward. When women react naturally to a lack of commitment they do things that usually make a man pull away even more.
If you want to start off a new relationship on the right foot, then you need to start with honest and open communication. This means from your earliest conversations you have with someone.
Let’s relate that to how you can start off right with a new guy. Even your first date or two you should be answering his questions honestly. He deserves honesty and the right to know the “real you”.
When a girl gives a guy the answer she thinks he wants instead of what you really are thinking, you are painting the wrong picture of who you are. Doing this can doom your relationship from the very beginning.
Being honest and communication is just as important later on as in the beginning. Men don’t automatically know what they did to hurt you or make you mad, you have to tell him.
Women sometimes assume that men feel the same way about their relationship as they do. By talking about things openly you can make sure that both of you are at the same point in your relationship. Have discussions about your relationship as you go on and avoid confusion and misunderstandings later on.
How to attract a good man starts with showing him who you really are. Relationships based on dishonesty are doomed before they even start.
Honest Communication – Yes, the saying “honesty is the best policy” is really true. Think of how important being honest and open in a new relationship is.
Not having honest communication at the beginning of a new relationship can start things off on the wrong foot. Later on, the lack of it can kill a good relationship. This is really key if you want to know how attract a man and keep him.
Being honest and communicating is the cornerstone of all relationships, not just romantic ones. Parent/child, neighbors, inlaws, boss/employee, pretty much all relationships are enhanced by honest communication.
Of course, just about everyone has heard that advice before and it just makes good common sense. Yet it is not uncommon for women to forget it in their eagerness to be pleasing to a new guy in their life.
If you have ever found yourself saying things you think a guy wants to hear, then you know what I mean. Women sometimes even deny their true feelings and refrain from voicing their own opinions in case their new man may not approve or agree with them.
The problem with this is that it is not fair to yourself or to a potential partner. Why? Because you are not what you seem to be and you are having to pretend to be something you are not. Not being honest or giving him an accurate picture of who you are is a lose-lose scenario.
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